Everything you do/purchase revolves around meat-ings and field circus.
You don't wear red or purple because it's too flashy.
You don't wear make-up or braid your hair because it's unbecoming of a humble sister.
You don't ever own anything of value because it would be greed and idolatry.
You don't get proper medical care, get your teeth fixed or live a healthy lifestyle because Jayhoover will restore it in paradise and now is "not the time".
You are both lauded and looked down on for remaining single.
You are treated like trash for doing anything but going to meat-ings and out in field circus.
The family vacation is going to the convention.
You secretly get educated, save/earn money, buy life/long term care insurance and plan for the future.